Introspection

It’s been a while since I’ve written anything; I got a feeling that may be I am in a stage of life where I am introspecting myself. Every now and then it’s good to take a short break from what you are doing in your day to day life. Watch your life closely from an entire totally different perspective; you will be amazed about what you will find. Most certainly they are very interesting facts which you would never find if you are not out of that zone. This practice helps and gives you a chance to improve, change, think and correct yourself. Like how you put an alarm to wake up in the morning put an alarm to wake yourself from life before it runs over you and takes control over you. Intelligent people create their opportunities, Smart people make perfect use of their opportunities only dumb people give away theirs to others. People who fall in the last category lack introspection so they are completely ignorant about how to make use of opportunities when they come their way. Reminds me of a proverb “You can take a horse only to the well but you can’t make it drink the water”
Now the question comes how do you actually do it? Give yourself a short break from your regular life and choose a place where you have freedom and your mind will be at peace. Just like how you do your physical exercise at the gym this is a mental exercise which needs loads of concentration. Think about all the things which you wanted to do and all the things which you hate to do in your life. Try to find a realistic solution to avoid those situations. Once you find the grey areas invest your time in researching about the potential problems which are creating road blocks in your life from attaining success, Peace and happiness. Even if you cannot solve all your problems in one day at least you’re headed in the right direction to solve them sooner or later. This exercise relaxes you as a person, you feel refreshed in your life with your mind attaining more energy levels. It also prevents you from making hasty decisions in life. At this point your mind is like a completely recharged battery, Key thing to remember to maintain this balance in life is to never ever let your brain battery drain.

Women

Agree or Disagree this will remain as an undeniable fact. Man’s life revolves around women. I am happy and consider myself as extremely lucky for having had the best in my life. I often think of trying not to hurt them in anyway but sometimes I fail in doing that. The greatest quality in women is forgiveness, But you need to be careful not to push those limits too far once its done it can’t be fixed anymore. Its always good to take sometime in your busy life to appreciate them once in a while which we men don’t if we get caught up with the busy life. Love, which they offer, is infinite which I doubt I can give them back as much as they do. Being rude, harsh, egoistic to women are the most pathetic qualities, which most men have and it is imperative to realize to get out of it and return them, back what they truly deserve. Even I am not an exception from the men which I am talking about I at least think about it and try to make up for it and I sincerely request everyone who falls under this category to introspect themselves and be as a better person.

PEACE

Just one word, But takes a lot to attain it. I strongly believe that peace is the solution for all the problems which we have in this world. Before you try to preach it to people around you it's very essential to check if you are at peace. Are you giving yourself enough time everyday to think about what's going on in your life and where you are heading. Some people call it meditation but I call that as a way to reach peace. You need to attain the state of Inner calmness which gives you enough power to listen to people around you. Once you achieve it you will stop running for things which doesn't matter in the long run, You will not worry for the materialistic things which used to bother you a lot before. You will stop running after life and start walking relaxed and enjoy every moment of your life by forgetting the problems, worries which you had in the past and not worry about your future. Inner peace pushes out all the insecurities in your life, You will be in a clear state of mind to judge your actions and make better choices in your life. All you need to do is constantly self motivate yourself towards reaching the peace and attain a mental stability. You will be surprised to see what life has to offer for you. If you haven't thought this way before at least now you can give it a try and I am sure it will not go waste.

Cross Roads

It's inevitable for anyone to avoid the crossroads at some point or the other in their life journey. Rest of our life depends on the path which we chose to take at the crossroads. No road maps or GPS will help you to take the directions at this point, You need to make choices all by yourself and where you go is what you get. As you go forward you will be in more complex situation that you were never ever before in your life. The only tool which you can carry with you is hope and trust. You need to have hope for the future and trust you instincts and intuitions based on which you are moving forward. You always have two choices at this point you can wait hours and days here thinking which path to choose and end up going the wrong way or you can go with your gut and choose a path what your mind and heart says and find out yourself if that is what you were looking for, Instead of wasting time to make a decision. If you were right you can help few other who count on you and if you were wrong you know what to do next time when you are in a similar situation. You just became more wiser by making a mistake there is nothing to worry or panic about it. The more distance you cover in life with such attitude the better you will become or maybe that is what I think.

What Next?

I wonder how many times I asked myself this question over and over now. Often we get caught up with doing something soul less and it takes lot of effort to come back out of it and do what you were supposed to do. You definitely don't feel good from inside if you are doing something which doesn't excite you, But I am sure about one thing Until and Unless you don't lose that fire inside, you are good. Never let someone switch off the fire inside you. Your job is to protect it and show the world what you are really capable of when the right time comes. All you need to do is wait for the real opportunity and groom yourself towards your goal and when the chance comes your way forget about what you are doing at that moment and forget everything else which surrounds around you, Just grab it with both your hands and you will excel in it. This is what you have waited to become all your life and this is what brings smile in your face and happiness in your heart, Once you reach that stage you won't ask yourself the question "What next" cause you already know what to do next.